Okay – so you’ve had a few really bad dating experiences and you’re now gun-shy. You’ve decided you’ll just crawl into your own hole and give up on the dating scene. Is that you? If you are one of those who avoid going out on a date because of some bad experience in the past, here are some dating tips that may help:

1. Look good on your date.

Taking a shower is probably good enough for a guy – but not for women. Wearing a nice outfit that is comfortable for you and well suited for your date is a good factor in looking and feeling presentable. Use some perfume or cologne to add up to your spice — lightly please! Some men have allergies and hate being around women who have on strong perfume. A little goes a long way.. Most men can’t resist asking women who look good on a first date for a second one.

2. Never be late.

It may be fashionable to arrive at a party 30 minutes late so you can make a grand entrance – but, don’t do it on a date. Sometimes, it’s okay for women to be late due to the rituals involved when it comes to dressing up and wearing makeup. It is fine for men to wait for a bit since this helps men to prepare for the date and loosen up a little. But don’t overdo in this area.

3. Be lady-like and respectable.

Most men really do want to be gentlemen and sometimes we ladies chop them off at the knees. It’s up to you to let the men become gentlemen. Don’t force them to be one. If they want to open the door for you, let them. When the door is open, pass through first. If they pull the chair for you, allow them to do so and thank them for the manly act. Keep in mind to thank your date for every manly effort he does in order to assure him that you are acknowledging him as a gentleman. Now, don’t be gushy. Just be sincere.

4. Offer to pay.

We live in a different era than our parents and grandparents where the man was expected to pay for everything. These days women are as apt to pick up the check as the man. It is a respectable gesture to help out on your dating expenses. But if your date insists to pay for everything, don’t resist.

At the end of your date, let him take you home safely. It is up to you if you intend on giving him a goodnight kiss as a reward for a job well done. Aw, heck! What will it hurt? Go ahead and give him that kiss. You can always go inside and wash your face if it is distasteful to you!

Have Fun!

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